Passive Aggressive Anger Video

Listen as Tom discusses the Top-10 Tactics of Passive Aggressive Anger.

You have a typical ...
You have a typical response to pure ignorance of a? person who is bitter and most likely was unwilling to receive instruction. Yes there are bad counselors, but most of the time when counseling doesn't work, is because one or both parties refuse to take personal responsibility to do what needs to be done. like take medication, or stop drinking etc.....

Yep and that is? 90 ...
Yep and that is? 90% of the mairrage they stink. I have never seen any mairrage get better from counceling be smart don't do it

Counseling is for ...
Counseling is for the victim to get strong enough? to set real boundaries that doesn't allow the perpetrators to continue to hurt you. The problem with victims setting boundaries is that they play by the "rules" but the perpetrators don't. Victims are not mean enough.

The only reason a ...
The only reason a passive aggressive person continues to do what they do, is because you continue let them do what they do. Many people want me (the counselor) to fix the PA, but why would they listen to me? I don't sleep with them, share money with them, share children with them, or really even care much about them, but you, on the other hand, have much more power to change them then I do. You are the one that needs change so they can't? do what they do.

Hi, Thank You. This ...
Hi, Thank You. This behavior is so extremely frustrating, a nightmare for someone who is co-dependent, has low self esteem, and who feels loved by physical affection. My father is this way and so is my husband and I wonder do I seek men that are PA to try to prove i am lovable? Marrying a PA is like? marrying a liar, he seems to go out of his way to not Love, honor or cherish me. A behavior he learned from a very violent homelife I tried to be sensitive or understanding, now I am done. I t

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@AtTheWellMinistries I? agree with you

@Robertthegreat12 ...
@Robertthegreat12 You have a right to think what you choose, regardless it still holds true that if you are deliberately not laughing or joking with your spouse because of internal animosity, you are passive aggressively getting them back and they should not? put up with it.

Great video,But i ...
Great video,But i diasagree on Just ONE of those reasons which is? reason #7. What If You dont want to joke with that person for the simple fact that there arent funny and someone else u joke with is. I understand your point, but in all cases i dont think that should apply.

My? ex was a ...
My? ex was a passive aggressive -- I was young and naive and didn't know anything about psychology -- I am glad that I got rid of him and since have become educated on human behaviour.

Great video, ...
Great video, Thank you for this video, especially the part about the porn. No one else has touched on this being passive aggressive behavior. You? are excellent!

It sounds like you ...
It sounds like you have some real issues. If that is the only way you have learned to deal with unruly and dysfunctional people, they have molded you to conform to their manipulation,? in turn you have become manipulative.

I had no idea " ...
I had no idea "spiritual fear tactics" was a passive aggressive anger thing. But it makes? sense. Thanks alot, my mother suffers from passive agressiveness and my sister is an emotional vampire narcissicist. It helps me to learn about why they both feel the NEED to act in the ways they do. I can't and won't fix them but I can help myself to understand why they need to be cut out of my life for my good health.

Thanks for? a great ...
Thanks for? a great video. Passive aggressive behavior is so manipulating and controlling while doing so under the guise of being ignorant or unaware. The video was so thorough and insightful. It's sad to say I recognize some of these traits in family and friends.

wow this is ...
wow this is incredibly useful information!! people use these? hidden, cryptic, technique's to destroy, or hurt peoples lives..........its sad and not necessary, everyone wants to be stronger than the other, so they use these technique like this man just perfectly answered to get back at people, thank you and i will study this for my own defense, if only humanity can stop being impulsive and irrational then we would have so much peace!

Thank you! ?
Thank you! ?

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